Hope keep you up for most of the time , but same hope can bring you down if it misdirect your anticipation to most unexpected outcome . Once it do , agony,pain, emotions trigger your tormented mode of heart and possibly ignite sleepless nights. This vicious pronomina can last a second , few hours, a day or two , or even a week , or may be years. This is particularly common among people experience meltdown relationships, family disparities, bad debits/financial issue, lack of social acceptance, or due to restricted self mandate to cope with personal and social issues in daily life.
How people survive amid shattered hopes ? how each segment of society face the challenge.
Its amazing when some argue saying hopeless can actually tear-off dissatisfaction and other side of the coin suggest hope actually keep you happy.Who is right ? For both type there are solid questions to be ask ‘ Is worry less life hopeless ? ‘ or ‘Is hopeful life happy ” . This question docent have a correct or incorrect answer. It has a relatively true or false answer depending on situations and experience of the individual which is commonly accurate for most people like you and me.
but there are socially powerful people in politics or business , for them this question would be irrelevant as misdirection of hope can bring them unexpected satisfaction in their careers, money, business and life . How they do it ? most of these people have power to turn an un-expectations to opportunity. which may bring unexpected results or damage. But still they take as positive. but power come’s with a price as recent research suggested how powerful people less care about whom are below their level, even they less care about their families, social relationships and social responsibility. Path of happiness of power sometime ends up in a disaster, even more worse than a below average social individual. It is not the way you portrait yourself to the world its how you manage your own life.
Its rare to find people who carries good heart as well as power. Like the concept of describing individual personality by colors black- worried , white – happy , gray – happy /unhappy . People look gray, mix of black and white just like the mix of hope and hopeless.
Within the same blur path of life , there are few concentrate on ‘middle way ‘ living. An un bound living , where you didn’t attached to either happy or sadness. The true meaning and calmness of life entirely depended on how you are able to understand you and your mind. Hope or hopeless will not help at all. You need to find the right recipe for that.
Finding that peace isn’t the easiest. We naturally divine our lives by hope and desire to satisfy. We drive goals and strategies physically to satisfy our mind. When you think a bit , your body is slave to your mind. Continue process of breading seeds of action to satisfy your body become sole purpose of living. Our system of hope and hopelessness become cycle of happiness and sadness mentally as well as physically.
Finding ultimate truth and direction of living will remain a solid question to for many generations.
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(c) Buddi Mathararachchi